By
Brandi Love
Welcome back to my continuing series on the hotwife
lifestyle!
Over the past year I have had litterally
hundreds of emails from husbands who wish their wives
would ebmrace the hotwife lifestyle but have no clue
how to broach the subject. It's a touchy one to be sure
so tread carefully and dont rush! The Olympic Calibur
Slut! I recently read a piece from "sluttywife" who
by the way self titles herself as a slut wife! I love
that! I think she sums it up best with the following
paraphrase: Any woman has the potential to be a slut.
Just like any man has the potential of being a Olympic
athlete. And it takes the same requirements for both.
Patience, support, training, experience, confidence,
more support and recovery. (If everything goes well)
So you guys have to start thinking about not being a
boyfriend, or husband, but think of yourselves as being
a coach of a star athlete. Except her sport is sex and
slutty nasty sex is her specialty. That is what you're
after right? A hotwife that wins a gold medal in being
the slutty nasty dirty girl that every man envies. So
you have to take it slow, apply patience, support, training,
experience, and confidence that she will require to
become the slut you want. Especially confidence. This
is probably the top thing you need to instill in order
to have a gold medal winning slut. She'll need round
the clock support and ego boosting to break free of
the bonds that society puts on women. Let her know you
support her 100%. I was listening to the radio today
and this boyfriend and girlfriend were breaking up over
the fact that last night she kissed a guy in a club.
And I'm thinking, "what just a kiss? She didn't take
it up the ass in a stall? He didn't fuck her on the
dance floor? She didn't blow him under a table? A kiss
is all?" Now think about you running into this girl
in a couple years. Do you actually think she is going
to believe you AND have the confidence in herself to
go out and fuck other guys? Not without a lot of patience,
support, training, experience, confidence, and more
support. Remember, growing up you were a "stud" when
you scored, girls were "tramps, sluts, whores, easy,
and on and on." So let her know you want her to be a
"good slut" because there is such a thing! Good stuff
huh! In addition to the emotional training and support
a wife needs she also needs the right wardrobe! Not
every woman feels sexy in a micro mini and 6 inch platforms.
Make sure you shop together but let her pick out the
items. Watch what she pics out and finds sexy! And then
there is the jewelry! Now of course, there's no "official"
policy or convention concerning hotwives and the wearing
of ankle jewelry, or any jewelry for that matter but
there are some significant practical aplications as
far as I'm concerned. First there are anklets made specifically
for the hotwife and swinging lifestyles. Those who know
about it will pick up on it right away and thats a good
thing! Secondly, if your wife puts it on as you are
ready or she is ready to head out...you know without
asking what she is up for tomight! Again it is a pleasure
to share my thoughts with you! If you are interested
in seeing how this lifestyle can work in real life please
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